I was thinking I should start making posts stating all the things that I wouldn’t have to put up with anymore when I have moved away. I won’t remember to put them all down at once, so I will add more as I go.
I won’t have to worry about:
Going hungry for hours or days because I can use the kitchen.
I don’t have to wait hours to use the bathroom – toilet, bathing etc.
I can wash my laundry whenever and hang it out to dry without fear of my clothing being thrown away or brought back in sopping wet.
I can get my mail without it opened, read or thrown away without my consent.
I can talk above a whisper to DH while in the house.
I won’t have to deal with noisy or restrictive home repairs that are never communicated to us before hand which make us unable to use the bathroom for weeks etc.
I can make a phone call anytime I like and not in rushed or hushed tones.
I can listen to music.
I can go downstairs whenever.
I can have the curtain open and enjoy the day without being stared up at.
I can go downstairs without being glared at, huffed, grumbled at or blatantly ignored or knocked out of the way.
I don’t have to keep my food up in the room and I won’t have people stealing it or double dipping eating out of my jars.
I can probably wear dresses again – I won’t have a creep trying to stare down my bouses or dresses.
I don’t have to hear a door slam up to 50 or more times a day.
I don’t have to find diaherra in the toilet or shit all over the toilet seat
I won’t have to bathe in a tub that has shit pieces in it on a daily basis.
I can hang out my towel without it being used or finding shit stains on it.
I can sit in the backyard unbothered.
I can laugh again and display happy emotions out side of the bedroom without fear of punishment.
I can get my confidence back again.
More to come later.